For many men, approaching a pretty girl they like can feel as if they have an anxiety disorder. The nervousness and anxiety can become so bad when trying to pick up a pretty girl, that you might actually experience symptoms that are similar to those of a panic attack!
Now let me ask you this, when you are thinking about or are about to approach a beautiful girl that you like. Do you experience any of these symptoms?
- Hyperventilating
- Jitteriness
- Racing thoughts
- Racing Heart Beat
- Feeling sick
- any many more
But before we get into the meat, there is some very simple facts you absolutely MUST know about women that are sure to make you feel better as you go over them:
1) Most women are just as nice and friendly as you and me, they are not mean to strangers and will NOT slap you or scream "Pervert" when you approach them.
2) Most women will simply say "no thanks", "sorry, I am not interested" or "I have a boyfriend" if they are not interested instead of kicking you in the groin.
3) There is no need to be scared of beautiful women, they are human just like you and me and interact with others on a daily basis.
4) Women like sex just as much as men do.
5) When a sexy girl is wearing revealing clothing, has her hair done and is looking as if she walked out of MAXIM she knows she looks good, knows she is getting attention from nearly every man she passes and DOES NOT mind it.
6) Pretty girls are used to getting approached by men. While this may not help your chances too much, it does mean that when you approach her she will not be scared or offended by you (unless you say something stupid). So take your best shot, she won't go crazy and scream for help.
In many cases, the girl you approach can be just as shy and nervous as you. It's not just men who get overwhelming anxiety when talking to members of the opposite sex at a mall girls get it too.
So now that you know some of these simple facts, I hope you realize that women are not some mystical creatures that behave unpredictably and are out to embarrass and brutally shut down every guy that approaches them.
Women are people, just like men are and the sooner you realize that the sooner you'll be able to approach a pretty girl walking down the street just as easy as you can ask another man what time it is.
Women are not giant 800 pound gorillas that can snap you in half like a match stick, in other words there is nothing to be afraid of.
Author Resource:-
Tom Williamsen and Tiffany Burke are dating and self-improvement experts. Find out more about Tiffany's "How to Overcome Anxiety when approaching women" program here: http://www.datinganxiety.com
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